Neighbor Mutual Aid

# Localization note
- Community structures, housing types, and cultural norms around neighbor contact vary hugely
- Apartment building (buzz intercom, leave flyer under doors, talk to building manager first)
  vs. suburban block (walk up to front doors) vs. rural (longer distances, fewer neighbors, more self-reliance)
- Cultural directness norms differ: in some cultures, knocking unannounced is normal;
  in others, a written note first is more appropriate
- Adjust for local emergency numbers (911 in US, 999 in UK, 112 in EU, 000 in Australia)
- Swap local disaster types (earthquake, hurricane, tornado, bushfire, flooding)
- Group purchasing sources and co-op structures vary by country

BLOCK MAPPING EXERCISE (15 minutes)

Draw a rough sketch of your block or building floor. For each unit/house:

1. Write the address or unit number
2. Write names if you know them (first name is fine)
3. Note anything you already know:
   - Approximate age range (young family, retired, etc.)
   - Pets (you'll see them outside)
   - Vehicles (truck owners are gold for mutual aid)
   - Visible skills (someone always doing yard work = gardening knowledge)

DON'T OVERTHINK THIS. You're not surveilling anyone.
You're just writing down what you already passively know.

Target: 8-15 households for a suburban block, 6-10 for an apartment floor

DOOR-KNOCK PROTOCOL

When to go: Saturday or Sunday, 10am-12pm or 4-6pm
What to bring: A one-page flyer (template below) and a pen
What to wear: Normal clothes. Not a clipboard-and-lanyard vibe.

OPENING SCRIPT (adjust to your personality):

"Hi, I'm [name], I live at [address/unit]. I'm putting together a
neighborhood contact list -- just so we know each other and can help
out in emergencies or share resources. Takes about 2 minutes. Would
you be interested?"

IF THEY SAY YES:
Walk through the 5-question survey (Step 3).
Leave them the flyer. Ask for their preferred contact method.

IF THEY SAY NO OR SEEM UNCOMFORTABLE:
"No problem at all. Here's my number if you ever need anything."
Hand them the flyer and move on. No pressure. Ever.

IF NOBODY'S HOME:
Leave the flyer with a handwritten note:
"Hi neighbor -- I'm [name] at [address]. Putting together a block
contact list for emergencies and resource sharing. Text me if
you're interested: [phone number]"

EXPECT: About 60-70% positive response rate. Some people will be
thrilled someone finally did this. Some won't be interested. Both
are fine.

NEIGHBOR RESOURCE SURVEY

(Fill out during the door-knock conversation. Keep it casual.)

Name: _______________    Address/Unit: _______________
Phone: _______________   Email (optional): _______________
Preferred contact method:  Text / Call / Email / Signal / WhatsApp

1. SKILLS: Do you have any medical training, mechanical skills,
   trade skills, or other expertise? (nurse, electrician, plumber,
   EMT, teacher, IT, etc.)
   _______________________________________________

2. EQUIPMENT: Do you have any of these you'd be willing to lend
   occasionally? (Check all that apply)
   [ ] Truck/van/trailer    [ ] Ladder (what height? ___)
   [ ] Power tools           [ ] Generator
   [ ] Chainsaw              [ ] First aid kit
   [ ] Jumper cables         [ ] Snow blower
   [ ] Lawn mower            [ ] Other: _______________

3. EMERGENCY: Is there anyone in your household who might need
   extra help in an emergency? (Elderly person, infant, someone
   with mobility issues, medication-dependent, etc.)
   _______________________________________________

4. AVAILABILITY: Would you be open to any of these?
   [ ] Emergency contact exchange (call me if something's wrong)
   [ ] Key exchange (I can check on your place when you travel)
   [ ] Tool/equipment lending
   [ ] Group purchasing (bulk food, supplies)
   [ ] Babysitting/childcare swap
   [ ] Pet care coverage (feed cat, walk dog when you're away)
   [ ] Seasonal help (snow removal, storm prep, yard work)

5. OTHER: Anything else you'd want from a neighborhood network?
   _______________________________________________

NEIGHBORHOOD RESOURCE SHEET (template)

[YOUR BLOCK/BUILDING NAME] -- Emergency & Resource Contacts
Last updated: [DATE]

EMERGENCY CONTACTS:
- Fire/Police/Ambulance: 911
- Poison Control: 1-800-222-1222
- Non-emergency police: [local number]

NEIGHBOR CONTACT LIST:
Name          | Address | Phone        | Key Skills/Resources
______________|_________|______________|____________________
              |         |              |
              |         |              |
              |         |              |
(continue for all participating neighbors)

SHARED RESOURCES AVAILABLE:
- Truck/trailer: [Name, phone]
- Generator: [Name, phone]
- Ladder (extension): [Name, phone]
- Medical training: [Name, phone]
- Mechanical/trade skills: [Name, phone]

SEASONAL COORDINATION:
- Snow removal rotation: [names]
- Storm prep lead: [name]
- Yard waste coordination: [name]

EMERGENCY PLAN:
- Meeting point (if evacuation needed): [location]
- Who checks on who:
  [Name] checks on [Name] (elderly/needs assistance)
  [Name] checks on [Name]

PRINT THIS. Put it on your fridge. Give a copy to every
participating household.

TOOL/EQUIPMENT LENDING LIBRARY

Simple system -- no apps needed:
1. Create a shared note (Google Doc, group text, or physical binder)
2. List every item available for lending and who owns it
3. Rules:
   - Text the owner to borrow, return within 48 hours
   - Return clean and in working order
   - If you break it, you replace it or pay for repair
   - No lending to non-network people without owner's OK

GROUP PURCHASING

Best items for bulk buying:
- Paper products (toilet paper, paper towels) -- 30-40% savings
- Cleaning supplies -- 25-35% savings
- Non-perishable food (rice, beans, canned goods) -- 20-30% savings
- Seasonal supplies (salt, firewood, garden soil) -- 20-40% savings

How to run it:
1. One person places the Costco/warehouse order
2. Split cost proportionally
3. Distribute from one location (garage, lobby)
4. Rotate who places the order each month
5. Use Splitwise or Venmo to settle up

BABYSITTING/CHILDCARE EXCHANGE

Credit system works best:
1. Track hours with a shared spreadsheet
2. 1 hour of watching = 1 credit
3. Use credits to get coverage from another parent
4. Maximum "debt" of 5 hours before you need to give back
5. Emergency coverage (sick kid, stuck at work) doesn't cost credits
6. All participating parents meet first so kids know every adult

PET CARE COVERAGE

1. Exchange house keys or provide lockbox codes
2. Each pet owner writes a one-page care sheet:
   - Feeding schedule, amounts, brand
   - Medication if any
   - Vet name and number
   - Behavioral notes (leash reactive, hides under bed, etc.)
3. Do a practice run while you're home so the pet knows the neighbor

APARTMENT BUILDING ADAPTATION

Different challenges, same concept.

GETTING STARTED:
- Talk to building manager first. Some buildings have rules about
  door-to-door contact. Get permission or at least a heads-up.
- Use the mailroom, lobby, or laundry room as your "town square"
- Post a flyer on the community board before knocking
- Start with your floor only, then expand

WHAT CHANGES:
- No tool lending library (storage is the issue -- keep it small)
- Package watching is the #1 easy win (accept packages for each other)
- Noise coordination matters (text before a party, agree on quiet hours)
- Emergency check-ins are more critical (people can be isolated for days
  in apartments without anyone noticing)
- Shared laundry scheduling can reduce conflict
- Group purchasing works great (one delivery split across units)

WHAT STAYS THE SAME:
- Emergency contact exchange
- Skills inventory
- Key exchange for emergencies
- Pet care and childcare swaps
- The fundamental pitch: "We live 10 feet apart. We should at least
  know each other's names."

KEEPING IT ALIVE (minimal effort version)

QUARTERLY:
- Update the contact sheet (new neighbors, moves, changed numbers)
- One casual gathering per season (doesn't have to be fancy --
  front yard hangout, building lobby coffee, block party)

ANNUALLY:
- Refresh the resource survey (people get new tools, learn new skills)
- Review and update emergency plans
- Restock shared emergency supplies if applicable

ONGOING:
- Group text/chat for time-sensitive things (storm warning, suspicious
  activity, lost pet, "does anyone have a Phillips head screwdriver")
- Use the network. Borrow the ladder. Ask for help moving the couch.
  The more people use it, the stronger it gets.
- Welcome new neighbors. Knock on their door within the first month.
  Give them the resource sheet. This is how the network grows.

WHO COORDINATES:
- You started it, so you're the coordinator for now
- After 6 months, ask if someone else wants to share or take over
- It doesn't need a leader. It needs someone willing to send
  the occasional group text.