Agent skill

Should I Send This

by mohitagw15856 in mohitagw15856/pm-claude-skills

Gut-check a message before you send it — is it going to land the way you intend, or will you regret it in an hour?

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Install Should I Send This

skills CLI
$ npx skills add mohitagw15856/pm-claude-skills --skill should-i-send-this -a claude-code

Project install by default; add -g for ~/.claude/skills/.

GitHub CLI
$ gh skill install mohitagw15856/pm-claude-skills should-i-send-this --agent claude-code

Project scope by default; add --scope user for a personal install. Needs GitHub CLI 2.90.0 or later (public preview).

Manual copy
$ git clone --depth 1 https://github.com/mohitagw15856/pm-claude-skills.git skills-src && mkdir -p .claude/skills && cp -r skills-src/skills/should-i-send-this .claude/skills/should-i-send-this && rm -rf skills-src

Use ~/.claude/skills/ instead of .claude/skills for a personal install. The folder must contain SKILL.md.

Claude Code skills documentation · loads skills from .claude/skills/

Facts

Skill name
should-i-send-this
GitHub stars
1.4k
Token cost
~1k tokens
SKILL.md length
539 words
Files
1
Skills in repo
1,348
Repo updated
First seen
Licence
MIT

At a glance

Gut-check a message before you send it — is it going to land the way you intend, or will you regret it in an hour?

  • Works in 5 steps: Read it from the recipient's side. How… → Spot the emotion leak. Flag what's being… → Find the misreads and overshares. The… → …
  • Asked should I send this
  • SKILL.md covers What This Skill Produces, Required Inputs, Framework: Read It As Them,… and Output Format, plus 3 more sections
  • Instructions only: no scripts, shell commands, URLs or credentials in SKILL.md

What it does

Should I Send This is an agent skill from mohitagw15856/pm-claude-skills. Gut-check a message before you send it — is it going to land the way you intend, or will you regret it in an hour? Use when asked should I send this, is this message okay to send, check this before I hit send, or will I regret this text/email. Produces a read on how the message will actually land for its recipient, the parts that could be misread or that you're sending from emotion, whether now is the right time to send it at all, and a calmer rewrite if needed — catching the hot, snippy, or oversharing message…

Its SKILL.md is about 1k tokens, which your agent loads only when the skill is triggered. It is a single SKILL.md file with no bundled scripts.

The repository describes itself as: 1255 professional Agent Skills for Claude, ChatGPT, Gemini, Cursor & Codex — PRDs, postmortems, leases, medical bills, layoffs, go-bags, new countries. Plain markdown, MIT, in… The licence is MIT.

When your agent uses it

  • Asked should I send this
  • Is this message okay to send
  • Check this before I hit send
  • Will I regret this text/email

Example prompts

  • “/should-i-send-this”

Workflow steps

5 steps, taken from the first numbered list in SKILL.md.

  1. Read it from the recipient's side. How will they receive it — the tone they'll hear, not the one you mean? This is where regret hides.
  2. Spot the emotion leak. Flag what's being sent from anger, hurt, or anxiety — those parts are usually the regrettable ones.
  3. Find the misreads and overshares. The lines that could be taken wrong, and anything you're sharing that you can't unshare.
  4. Check the timing. Sometimes the message is fine but now isn't — hot moments especially warrant a wait. And some messages are better never…
  5. Offer the calm version and a verdict. If it needs softening, rewrite it to keep the point and lose the damage — then a clear send /…

What it can do on your machine

Read from SKILL.md and the folder at commit 1cbf1f0. It shows what the files ask for, not the result of running them.

  • Tool permissions

    Pre-approves nothing: there is no allowed-tools line, so your agent's usual permission prompts apply.

    From allowed-tools in the SKILL.md frontmatter.

  • Runs code

    No scripts in the folder and no shell commands in SKILL.md.

    From the folder's file list and the shell code blocks in SKILL.md.

  • Network

    No URLs in SKILL.md.

    From URLs in SKILL.md, links to its own repository left out.

  • Credentials

    Names no API keys, tokens, secrets or passwords.

    From names ending in _API_KEY, _TOKEN, _SECRET, _KEY or _PASSWORD in SKILL.md.

Context cost

Should I Send This loads about 1k tokens when it runs. Until then it costs about 143 tokens; SKILL.md has 539 words of instructions outside code blocks.

Always · name and description, kept in context so the agent knows when to use it
~143
When it runs · the whole SKILL.md, loaded when a task matches
~1k

Estimates: characters ÷ 4, the usual rule of thumb; real counts depend on the model's tokenizer. Scripts and assets cost tokens only if the agent reads them.

Safety

Auto-check passed

The automated check found no risky patterns in SKILL.md.

Automated static check — not a guarantee. Review scripts before installing. It scans the text of SKILL.md for risky patterns (piping downloads into a shell, reading credential files, hidden Unicode, destructive commands); files beside SKILL.md are not scanned.

SKILL.md

The full file from mohitagw15856/pm-claude-skills at commit 1cbf1f0, republished under its MIT licence (© mohitagw15856). 539 words, ~1,011 tokens.

Download SKILL.mdSave it as .claude/skills/should-i-send-this/SKILL.md (or your agent's skills folder).
name
should-i-send-this
description
Gut-check a message before you send it — is it going to land the way you intend, or will you regret it in an hour? Use when asked should I send this, is this message okay to send, check this before I hit send, or will I regret this text/email. Produces a read on how the message will actually land for its recipient, the parts that could be misread or that you're sending from emotion, whether now is the right time to send it at all, and a calmer rewrite if needed — catching the hot, snippy, or oversharing message before it does damage you can't undo.

Should I Send This

Sent is forever. The angry reply, the 2am overshare, the passive-aggressive "per my last email" — they feel right in the moment and wrong an hour later. This is the pause between writing and sending: it reads how your message will actually land for the person receiving it, flags what's emotion-driven or misreadable, checks whether now is even the right time to send, and offers a calmer version — so you send the message you'd stand behind tomorrow.

What This Skill Produces

  • The recipient's-eye read — how the message will likely land for them, not how it feels to you
  • The risk flags — the parts that could be misread, the emotion leaking through, the thing you'll regret, the overshare
  • The timing check — whether to send now, wait, or not send at all (some messages are better not sent)
  • A calmer rewrite — if it needs one, a version that gets your point across without the damage
  • The verdict — send as-is / send the rewrite / wait / don't send

Required Inputs

Ask for these if not provided:

  • The message — what you're about to send (paste it)
  • The recipient & relationship — who's getting it and your dynamic
  • Your state — calm, angry, hurt, anxious (be honest — it changes everything)
  • What you want to achieve — the actual goal of the message

Framework: Read It As Them, Then Decide

  1. Read it from the recipient's side. How will they receive it — the tone they'll hear, not the one you mean? This is where regret hides.
  2. Spot the emotion leak. Flag what's being sent from anger, hurt, or anxiety — those parts are usually the regrettable ones.
  3. Find the misreads and overshares. The lines that could be taken wrong, and anything you're sharing that you can't unshare.
  4. Check the timing. Sometimes the message is fine but now isn't — hot moments especially warrant a wait. And some messages are better never sent.
  5. Offer the calm version and a verdict. If it needs softening, rewrite it to keep the point and lose the damage — then a clear send / rewrite / wait / don't-send call.
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Output Format

The message: [what you want to send] · to [recipient] · you feel [state]

How it'll land for them: [recipient's-eye read]. Risk flags: [emotion leaking / misreadable lines / regret / overshare]. Timing: [send now / wait — you're hot / this may be better unsent]. Calmer version (if needed):

[rewrite that keeps the point, loses the damage] Verdict: [send as-is / send the rewrite / wait an hour / don't send].

Quality Checks

  • Reads the message from the recipient's perspective
  • Flags the emotion-driven and regrettable parts
  • Catches misreadable lines and overshares
  • Checks whether now is the right time (or whether to send at all)
  • Offers a calmer rewrite when warranted
  • Gives a clear verdict

Anti-Patterns

  • Judging by how it feels to send rather than to receive.
  • Rubber-stamping a clearly hot message.
  • Rewriting away the point along with the heat.
  • Ignoring timing — sometimes the fix is just "wait."
  • Never flagging "don't send" when that's the answer.

Example Trigger Phrases

  • "Should I send this angry reply to my boss? Check it first."
  • "Is this text okay to send, or will I regret it?"
  • "Read this before I hit send on it."
  • "I'm hurt and about to send this — should I?"
  • "Gut-check this message for me."

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Files

Just SKILL.md in skills/should-i-send-this of mohitagw15856/pm-claude-skills.

Open the folder on GitHubat commit 1cbf1f0

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Questions about Should I Send This

What does Should I Send This do?

Gut-check a message before you send it — is it going to land the way you intend, or will you regret it in an hour? Should I Send This is an agent skill from mohitagw15856/pm-claude-skills. Gut-check a message before you send it — is it going to land the way you intend, or will you regret it in an hour?

When should I use Should I Send This?

Should I Send This fits situations like: asked should I send this; is this message okay to send; check this before I hit send; will I regret this text/email.

How do I install Should I Send This in Claude Code?

Run `npx skills add mohitagw15856/pm-claude-skills --skill should-i-send-this -a claude-code`. Or copy the skill folder (skills/should-i-send-this in mohitagw15856/pm-claude-skills) into .claude/skills/should-i-send-this in your project. Claude Code loads it when a task matches its description.

How do I install Should I Send This in Codex?

Run `npx skills add mohitagw15856/pm-claude-skills --skill should-i-send-this -a codex`. Or copy the skill folder (skills/should-i-send-this in mohitagw15856/pm-claude-skills) into .agents/skills/should-i-send-this in your project. Codex loads it when a task matches its description.

Can I use Should I Send This in Cursor, Gemini CLI or GitHub Copilot?

Cursor, Gemini CLI, GitHub Copilot and OpenCode also load SKILL.md folders. With the skills CLI, run `npx skills add mohitagw15856/pm-claude-skills --skill should-i-send-this -a cursor` (or -a gemini-cli, github-copilot or opencode for the others). To copy it by hand, put the folder in .cursor/skills/should-i-send-this, .gemini/skills/should-i-send-this, .github/skills/should-i-send-this and .opencode/skills/should-i-send-this in your project.

What does Should I Send This need to run?

SKILL.md names no scripts, command-line tools or credentials: Should I Send This is instructions for the agent only.

Does Should I Send This access the network?

SKILL.md contains no URLs. Any network use would come from the scripts or tools the agent runs. This is read from the text; nothing was executed.

Is Should I Send This safe to install?

Our automated static check of SKILL.md found no risky patterns, such as piping downloads into a shell, reading credential files or hidden Unicode. It is not a guarantee. Review the folder before installing.

What licence does Should I Send This use?

Should I Send This is published under the MIT licence (the repository's licence). It allows redistribution, so the full SKILL.md is shown on this page.

How many tokens does Should I Send This use?

About 1k tokens (SKILL.md is roughly 4k characters). Agents keep only the skill's name and description in context until a task matches; then they load SKILL.md in full.

What are the alternatives to Should I Send This?

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Who maintains Should I Send This?

mohitagw15856 (a GitHub user) maintains it in mohitagw15856/pm-claude-skills, which has 1,434 GitHub stars. The repository holds 1,348 skills in this directory. The repository was last updated on October 9, 2026.

Source: mohitagw15856/pm-claude-skills on GitHub. Facts on this page come from the repository at the commit we read; the author's words are quoted as theirs.