Agent skill

Blended Family Plan

by mohitagw15856 in mohitagw15856/pm-claude-skills

Plan the merging of two families thoughtfully — roles, rules, routines, and relationships — so a blended household starts on the right foot instead of a collision.

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Install Blended Family Plan

skills CLI
$ npx skills add mohitagw15856/pm-claude-skills --skill blended-family-plan -a claude-code

Project install by default; add -g for ~/.claude/skills/.

GitHub CLI
$ gh skill install mohitagw15856/pm-claude-skills blended-family-plan --agent claude-code

Project scope by default; add --scope user for a personal install. Needs GitHub CLI 2.90.0 or later (public preview).

Manual copy
$ git clone --depth 1 https://github.com/mohitagw15856/pm-claude-skills.git skills-src && mkdir -p .claude/skills && cp -r skills-src/skills/blended-family-plan .claude/skills/blended-family-plan && rm -rf skills-src

Use ~/.claude/skills/ instead of .claude/skills for a personal install. The folder must contain SKILL.md.

Claude Code skills documentation · loads skills from .claude/skills/

Facts

Skill name
blended-family-plan
GitHub stars
1.4k
Token cost
~1.2k tokens
SKILL.md length
590 words
Files
1
Skills in repo
1,348
Repo updated
First seen
Licence
MIT

At a glance

Plan the merging of two families thoughtfully — roles, rules, routines, and relationships — so a blended household starts on the right foot instead of a collision.

  • Works in 6 steps: Read the sensitivities. Ages, recency of… → Get the step-parent role right. Early… → Align rules and routines fairly. Agree… → …
  • Asked to help blend our families
  • SKILL.md covers What This Skill Produces, Required Inputs, Framework: Slow, Fair, Kid-Paced and Output Format, plus 3 more sections
  • Instructions only: no scripts, shell commands, URLs or credentials in SKILL.md

What it does

Blended Family Plan is an agent skill from mohitagw15856/pm-claude-skills. Plan the merging of two families thoughtfully — roles, rules, routines, and relationships — so a blended household starts on the right foot instead of a collision. Use when asked to help blend our families, moving in with my partner and their kids, step-parenting help, or how to merge two households. Produces a read on the situation and its sensitivities, an approach to step-parent roles and discipline, a plan to align house rules and routines across homes, ways to build relationships at each child's pace, and…

Its SKILL.md is about 1.2k tokens, which your agent loads only when the skill is triggered. It is a single SKILL.md file with no bundled scripts.

The repository describes itself as: 1255 professional Agent Skills for Claude, ChatGPT, Gemini, Cursor & Codex — PRDs, postmortems, leases, medical bills, layoffs, go-bags, new countries. Plain markdown, MIT, in… The licence is MIT.

When your agent uses it

  • Asked to help blend our families
  • Moving in with my partner and their kids
  • Step-parenting help
  • How to merge two households

Example prompts

  • “/blended-family-plan”

Workflow steps

6 steps, taken from the first numbered list in SKILL.md.

  1. Read the sensitivities. Ages, recency of the split/loss, and each child's resistance drive everything — start from their reality, not the…
  2. Get the step-parent role right. Early on, the biological parent should lead discipline while the step-parent focuses on building trust and…
  3. Align rules and routines fairly. Agree consistent house rules and chores that don't favor one set of kids, and coordinate with the other…
  4. Build relationships at the child's pace. One-on-one time and shared low-pressure activities; don't force affection or a "we're one big…
  5. Manage exes and loyalty binds. Keep co-parent conflict away from the kids and reassure them they don't have to choose or replace anyone.
  6. Expect it to take time. Blending is a multi-year process; name that, and flag a family counselor for serious or stuck dynamics. (This…

What it can do on your machine

Read from SKILL.md and the folder at commit 1cbf1f0. It shows what the files ask for, not the result of running them.

  • Tool permissions

    Pre-approves nothing: there is no allowed-tools line, so your agent's usual permission prompts apply.

    From allowed-tools in the SKILL.md frontmatter.

  • Runs code

    No scripts in the folder and no shell commands in SKILL.md.

    From the folder's file list and the shell code blocks in SKILL.md.

  • Network

    No URLs in SKILL.md.

    From URLs in SKILL.md, links to its own repository left out.

  • Credentials

    Names no API keys, tokens, secrets or passwords.

    From names ending in _API_KEY, _TOKEN, _SECRET, _KEY or _PASSWORD in SKILL.md.

Context cost

Blended Family Plan loads about 1.2k tokens when it runs. Until then it costs about 153 tokens; SKILL.md has 590 words of instructions outside code blocks.

Always · name and description, kept in context so the agent knows when to use it
~153
When it runs · the whole SKILL.md, loaded when a task matches
~1.2k

Estimates: characters ÷ 4, the usual rule of thumb; real counts depend on the model's tokenizer. Scripts and assets cost tokens only if the agent reads them.

Safety

Auto-check passed

The automated check found no risky patterns in SKILL.md.

Automated static check — not a guarantee. Review scripts before installing. It scans the text of SKILL.md for risky patterns (piping downloads into a shell, reading credential files, hidden Unicode, destructive commands); files beside SKILL.md are not scanned.

SKILL.md

The full file from mohitagw15856/pm-claude-skills at commit 1cbf1f0, republished under its MIT licence (© mohitagw15856). 590 words, ~1,242 tokens.

Download SKILL.mdSave it as .claude/skills/blended-family-plan/SKILL.md (or your agent's skills folder).
name
blended-family-plan
description
Plan the merging of two families thoughtfully — roles, rules, routines, and relationships — so a blended household starts on the right foot instead of a collision. Use when asked to help blend our families, moving in with my partner and their kids, step-parenting help, or how to merge two households. Produces a read on the situation and its sensitivities, an approach to step-parent roles and discipline, a plan to align house rules and routines across homes, ways to build relationships at each child's pace, and how to handle exes and loyalty binds — realistic, not idealized. Not therapy.

Blended-Family Plan

Blending families is rarely the instant-harmony montage — it's two sets of routines, loyalties, and expectations meeting at once. It goes best when the adults plan the roles and rules in advance, move at the kids' pace, and don't force closeness. This lays out a realistic approach to step-parent roles, house rules, relationship-building, and the ex/loyalty dynamics — honest that it takes time.

What This Skill Produces

  • A situation read — the ages, the histories, and the specific sensitivities (recent split, grief, resistance) that shape the plan
  • Step-parent role & discipline — an approach where the biological parent leads discipline early and the step-parent builds a relationship first
  • Rules & routines alignment — merging house rules, chores, and routines fairly, and coordinating across two homes where possible
  • Relationship-building at each child's pace — one-on-one time, low pressure, and not forcing "love" or a "new family" narrative
  • Exes & loyalty binds — reducing conflict with co-parents and easing kids' loyalty conflicts
  • Realistic expectations — a timeline measured in years, not weeks; when a family counselor helps

Required Inputs

Ask for these if not provided:

  • The families — kids' ages, who lives where, custody arrangements
  • The stage — dating, moving in, newly blended, or struggling
  • The histories — how recent the previous relationships ended, any grief
  • The friction — what's hard now (a resistant child, discipline clashes, an ex)
  • Your goal — a smooth start, or fixing a specific tension

Framework: Slow, Fair, Kid-Paced

  1. Read the sensitivities. Ages, recency of the split/loss, and each child's resistance drive everything — start from their reality, not the adults' timeline.
  2. Get the step-parent role right. Early on, the biological parent should lead discipline while the step-parent focuses on building trust and a relationship — stepping into "enforcer" too soon breeds resentment.
  3. Align rules and routines fairly. Agree consistent house rules and chores that don't favor one set of kids, and coordinate with the other home where you can.
  4. Build relationships at the child's pace. One-on-one time and shared low-pressure activities; don't force affection or a "we're one big family now" story kids aren't ready for.
  5. Manage exes and loyalty binds. Keep co-parent conflict away from the kids and reassure them they don't have to choose or replace anyone.
  6. Expect it to take time. Blending is a multi-year process; name that, and flag a family counselor for serious or stuck dynamics. (This isn't therapy.)
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Output Format

Blended-family plan: [kids' ages] · [stage] · friction: [x]

Sensitivities: [recency/grief/resistance shaping the approach]. Step-parent role: [bio parent leads discipline early · step-parent builds relationship first]. Rules & routines: [align fairly across kids · coordinate across homes]. Build bonds (kid-paced): [one-on-one · low pressure · no forced "love"]. Exes & loyalty: [reduce co-parent conflict · reassure kids they needn't choose]. Expect: years, not weeks. Get help if: [serious/stuck → family counselor].

Supportive guidance, not therapy or clinical advice — for serious struggles, a family therapist can help.

Quality Checks

  • Reads the specific ages/histories/sensitivities
  • Gets the step-parent discipline/relationship sequence right
  • Aligns rules/routines fairly across both sets of kids
  • Builds relationships at the children's pace, no forcing
  • Addresses exes and kids' loyalty binds
  • Sets realistic multi-year expectations and flags counseling

Anti-Patterns

  • Instant-family expectations — forcing closeness fast.
  • Step-parent as immediate disciplinarian — breeds resentment.
  • Unfair rules favoring one set of kids.
  • Making kids choose or feel disloyal.
  • Letting ex-conflict spill onto the children.

Example Trigger Phrases

  • "We're moving in together with kids from both sides — help us plan."
  • "How much should I discipline my stepkids?"
  • "My partner's child is resisting me — what do I do?"
  • "How do we merge two sets of house rules fairly?"
  • "Help our blended family get off to a good start."

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Files

Just SKILL.md in skills/blended-family-plan of mohitagw15856/pm-claude-skills.

Open the folder on GitHubat commit 1cbf1f0

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Questions about Blended Family Plan

What does Blended Family Plan do?

Plan the merging of two families thoughtfully — roles, rules, routines, and relationships — so a blended household starts on the right foot instead of a collision. Blended Family Plan is an agent skill from mohitagw15856/pm-claude-skills. Plan the merging of two families thoughtfully — roles, rules, routines, and relationships — so a blended household starts on the right foot instead of a collision.

When should I use Blended Family Plan?

Blended Family Plan fits situations like: asked to help blend our families; moving in with my partner and their kids; step-parenting help; how to merge two households.

How do I install Blended Family Plan in Claude Code?

Run `npx skills add mohitagw15856/pm-claude-skills --skill blended-family-plan -a claude-code`. Or copy the skill folder (skills/blended-family-plan in mohitagw15856/pm-claude-skills) into .claude/skills/blended-family-plan in your project. Claude Code loads it when a task matches its description.

How do I install Blended Family Plan in Codex?

Run `npx skills add mohitagw15856/pm-claude-skills --skill blended-family-plan -a codex`. Or copy the skill folder (skills/blended-family-plan in mohitagw15856/pm-claude-skills) into .agents/skills/blended-family-plan in your project. Codex loads it when a task matches its description.

Can I use Blended Family Plan in Cursor, Gemini CLI or GitHub Copilot?

Cursor, Gemini CLI, GitHub Copilot and OpenCode also load SKILL.md folders. With the skills CLI, run `npx skills add mohitagw15856/pm-claude-skills --skill blended-family-plan -a cursor` (or -a gemini-cli, github-copilot or opencode for the others). To copy it by hand, put the folder in .cursor/skills/blended-family-plan, .gemini/skills/blended-family-plan, .github/skills/blended-family-plan and .opencode/skills/blended-family-plan in your project.

What does Blended Family Plan need to run?

SKILL.md names no scripts, command-line tools or credentials: Blended Family Plan is instructions for the agent only.

Does Blended Family Plan access the network?

SKILL.md contains no URLs. Any network use would come from the scripts or tools the agent runs. This is read from the text; nothing was executed.

Is Blended Family Plan safe to install?

Our automated static check of SKILL.md found no risky patterns, such as piping downloads into a shell, reading credential files or hidden Unicode. It is not a guarantee. Review the folder before installing.

What licence does Blended Family Plan use?

Blended Family Plan is published under the MIT licence (the repository's licence). It allows redistribution, so the full SKILL.md is shown on this page.

How many tokens does Blended Family Plan use?

About 1.2k tokens (SKILL.md is roughly 5k characters). Agents keep only the skill's name and description in context until a task matches; then they load SKILL.md in full.

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Who maintains Blended Family Plan?

mohitagw15856 (a GitHub user) maintains it in mohitagw15856/pm-claude-skills, which has 1,434 GitHub stars. The repository holds 1,348 skills in this directory. The repository was last updated on October 9, 2026.

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