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coreyhaines31/marketingskills
When the user wants help creating, scheduling, or optimizing social media content for LinkedIn, Twitter/X, Instagram, TikTok, or Facebook, or wants to do social listening and engagement triage.
Agent skill
Chinese-language relationship coach that responds to feelings first, then separates facts, weighs reciprocity and drafts messages you can send to a crush or partner.
SKILL.md written in Chinese; this summary is our English description.
$ npx skills add shengjidaguai-china/goutoujunshi --skill goutoujunshi -a claude-codeProject install by default; add -g for ~/.claude/skills/.
$ gh skill install shengjidaguai-china/goutoujunshi goutoujunshi --agent claude-codeProject scope by default; add --scope user for a personal install. Needs GitHub CLI 2.90.0 or later (public preview).
Claude Code skills documentation · loads skills from .claude/skills/
Install the "goutoujunshi" agent skill from https://github.com/shengjidaguai-china/goutoujunshi/tree/main into .claude/skills/goutoujunshi/ in this project. Copy the whole folder (SKILL.md and every file beside it), keep the folder name "goutoujunshi", then confirm the skill loads.Claude Code copies the folder itself, the same result as the manual copy. Check what it changed before you commit it.
$ npx skills add shengjidaguai-china/goutoujunshi --skill goutoujunshi -a codexProject install goes to .agents/skills/; add -g for ~/.codex/skills/.
$ gh skill install shengjidaguai-china/goutoujunshi goutoujunshi --agent codexProject scope by default (.agents/skills/); add --scope user for a personal install.
Codex skills documentation · loads skills from .agents/skills/
Install the "goutoujunshi" agent skill from https://github.com/shengjidaguai-china/goutoujunshi/tree/main into .agents/skills/goutoujunshi/ in this project. Copy the whole folder (SKILL.md and every file beside it), keep the folder name "goutoujunshi", then confirm the skill loads.Codex copies the folder itself, the same result as the manual copy. Check what it changed before you commit it.
$ npx skills add shengjidaguai-china/goutoujunshi --skill goutoujunshi -a cursorProject install goes to .agents/skills/; add -g for ~/.cursor/skills/.
$ gh skill install shengjidaguai-china/goutoujunshi goutoujunshi --agent cursorProject scope by default (.agents/skills/); add --scope user for a personal install.
Cursor skills documentation · loads skills from .cursor/skills/, .agents/skills/, .claude/skills/, .codex/skills/
Install the "goutoujunshi" agent skill from https://github.com/shengjidaguai-china/goutoujunshi/tree/main into .cursor/skills/goutoujunshi/ in this project. Copy the whole folder (SKILL.md and every file beside it), keep the folder name "goutoujunshi", then confirm the skill loads.Cursor copies the folder itself, the same result as the manual copy. Check what it changed before you commit it.
$ npx skills add shengjidaguai-china/goutoujunshi --skill goutoujunshi -a gemini-cliProject install goes to .agents/skills/; add -g for ~/.gemini/skills/.
$ gh skill install shengjidaguai-china/goutoujunshi goutoujunshi --agent gemini-cliProject scope by default (.agents/skills/); add --scope user for a personal install.
Gemini CLI skills documentation · loads skills from .gemini/skills/, .agents/skills/
Install the "goutoujunshi" agent skill from https://github.com/shengjidaguai-china/goutoujunshi/tree/main into .gemini/skills/goutoujunshi/ in this project. Copy the whole folder (SKILL.md and every file beside it), keep the folder name "goutoujunshi", then confirm the skill loads.Gemini CLI copies the folder itself, the same result as the manual copy. Check what it changed before you commit it.
$ gh skill install shengjidaguai-china/goutoujunshi goutoujunshiInstalls for Copilot at project scope by default; add --scope user for a personal install. Preview a skill first with gh skill preview. Needs GitHub CLI 2.90.0 or later (public preview).
$ npx skills add shengjidaguai-china/goutoujunshi --skill goutoujunshi -a github-copilotProject install goes to .agents/skills/; add -g for ~/.copilot/skills/.
GitHub Copilot skills documentation · loads skills from .github/skills/, .claude/skills/, .agents/skills/
Install the "goutoujunshi" agent skill from https://github.com/shengjidaguai-china/goutoujunshi/tree/main into .github/skills/goutoujunshi/ in this project. Copy the whole folder (SKILL.md and every file beside it), keep the folder name "goutoujunshi", then confirm the skill loads.GitHub Copilot copies the folder itself, the same result as the manual copy. Check what it changed before you commit it.
$ npx skills add shengjidaguai-china/goutoujunshi --skill goutoujunshi -a opencodeOpenCode documents no install command of its own. Project install goes to .agents/skills/; add -g for ~/.config/opencode/skills/.
$ gh skill install shengjidaguai-china/goutoujunshi goutoujunshi --agent opencodeProject scope by default (.agents/skills/); add --scope user for a personal install.
OpenCode skills documentation · loads skills from .opencode/skills/, .claude/skills/, .agents/skills/
Install the "goutoujunshi" agent skill from https://github.com/shengjidaguai-china/goutoujunshi/tree/main into .opencode/skills/goutoujunshi/ in this project. Copy the whole folder (SKILL.md and every file beside it), keep the folder name "goutoujunshi", then confirm the skill loads.OpenCode copies the folder itself, the same result as the manual copy. Check what it changed before you commit it.
goutoujunshiChinese-language relationship coach that responds to feelings first, then separates facts, weighs reciprocity and drafts messages you can send to a crush or partner.
Written in Chinese, this advisor skill covers crushes, flirting, dating, chat-log and screenshot reading, relationship confirmation, choosing between several people, conflict, cooling interest, uneven effort, breakups, getting back together, infidelity, and marriage or family problems. Its stated principle is to acknowledge feelings first, then sort out facts, then offer choices you can act on.
On first use it asks for a short profile of you and each person involved, including MBTI, your own subjective overall rating from 0 to 100 and the relationship background, unless an urgent situation has to be handled first. Each analysis follows five steps: settling the emotion, separating facts from guesses, weighing reciprocity and risk, giving one preferred recommendation with up to three message versions, and closing with a small next action.
Evidence rules limit it to what screenshots or logs actually show, with the speaker mapping confirmed, and it does not claim to read or export data from chat apps such as WeChat or QQ, though it can analyze ChatLab data you supply. A long-term relationship profile is kept only after explicit consent and can be viewed, paused, revoked or deleted. Reference notes load on demand, one to three at a time, and classic social-skill systems are translated into honest, reciprocal communication, with a note on manipulation tactics to avoid.
5 steps, taken from the first numbered list in SKILL.md.
Read from SKILL.md and the folder at commit 6db7354. It shows what the files ask for, not the result of running them.
Pre-approves nothing: there is no allowed-tools line, so your agent's usual permission prompts apply.
From allowed-tools in the SKILL.md frontmatter.
Ships 1 file in scripts/, which the agent can run.
From the folder's file list and the shell code blocks in SKILL.md.
No URLs in SKILL.md.
From URLs in SKILL.md, links to its own repository left out.
Names no API keys, tokens, secrets or passwords.
From names ending in _API_KEY, _TOKEN, _SECRET, _KEY or _PASSWORD in SKILL.md.
Dating and Relationship Advisor loads about 973 tokens when it runs, and up to ~76k if it reads all its reference files. Until then it costs about 66 tokens; SKILL.md has 102 words of instructions outside code blocks.
Estimates: characters ÷ 4, the usual rule of thumb; real counts depend on the model's tokenizer. Scripts and assets cost tokens only if the agent reads them.
The automated check found no risky patterns in SKILL.md.
Automated static check — not a guarantee. Review scripts before installing. It scans the text of SKILL.md for risky patterns (piping downloads into a shell, reading credential files, hidden Unicode, destructive commands); the scripts in this folder are not scanned.
The full file from shengjidaguai-china/goutoujunshi at commit 6db7354, republished under its MIT licence (© shengjidaguai-china). 102 words, ~973 tokens.
.claude/skills/goutoujunshi/SKILL.md (or your agent's skills folder). This skill also uses 72 other files; get the full folder from GitHub.先接住情绪,再分清事实,最后给能执行的选择。把“对用户最有利”理解为情绪稳定、安全、自尊、边界、互惠、时间精力、机会成本、短期效果、长期信任与未来选择权的综合利益;不要把得到某个人当作唯一胜利。
在普通心动、暧昧和约会场景中,只要没有明确拒绝、不适或现实危险,就帮助用户至少主动一次:主动联系、具体邀约、真诚表达欣赏;线下接触保持低强度、可退出并逐步看反馈,不把沉默当同意。用户目标是退出、处理冲突或关系持续缺乏投入时,不强行推进。
普通推进不按性别建议等待。中国常见异性约会语境中,男性追求女性时可默认把主动度提高一级,但这只是能被个人偏好与现实反馈覆盖的文化校准,不自动增加肢体接触。
保持温暖、清醒、站在用户一边。给判断但不读心;用真实行为校正 MBTI、依恋、性别和社交体系假设。
当前对话没有档案时,先发紧凑问卷;危险、强烈崩溃或必须马上回复时,先处理眼前问题,再补档案。
先让我认识你和局面:
你:MBTI / 主观综合评分0–100 / 主要优势和短板
对象A:代号 / MBTI / 主观综合评分0–100 / 当前关系
对象B(如有):同上
经过:认识方式、发展多久、最近三件关键事件、联系和双方投入
目标:推进、确认、修复、比较选择,还是退出
情绪:最难受的点、强度0–10;眼下有没有必须马上回的话
不知道可留空,也可以直接讲故事。把评分视为用户当下的主观评价,不当成人的价值或精确市场价格,不擅自替人评分。收到回答后简短复述并只请用户纠正关键误差;为每个对象保持独立档案。后续沿用已知信息,只补问会改变建议的变化。
资料彼此矛盾时指出矛盾;缺失信息保持未知,不为了完整而虚构。
需要回复文字时结合原文直接生成可发送成品。只有来源差异确实会改变建议时,追问一个必要问题。
需要跨任务档案时先读 references/practical/长期记忆与关系档案.md 并检查状态。首次明确同意后才启用;同意后自动更新会影响未来建议的有限字段与关键事件,每次提示变更和撤销方式。只按当前对象召回压缩上下文,不保存整份聊天,不无限累积;用户可查看、暂停、撤销或删除。
没有记忆、字段缺失、脚本不可用或写入失败时,明确说不知道或没有保存,不从姓名、MBTI、旧案例或模型推测补事实,也不得声称已经记住。
用户只问“这句怎么回”时,第一屏先给一条可复制成品,再写发送时机、主要代价和积极/含糊/不回应的后续。每条消息尽量只承载一个主动作,不堆叠承接、邀约、澄清和收线。
默认只读取当前问题直接需要的 1–3 份参考,不批量加载整个知识库。先读主题入口;风险或证据争议出现时再补一份知识文件。
| 当前问题 | 必读或优先读取 |
|---|---|
| 一句话回复、开场、邀约、演练 | references/practical/实战话术编排器:从一句回复到后续分支.md |
| 松弛感、现场取材、轻松调情 | references/practical/场景感、松弛感与社交校准:从接话到关系推进.md |
| Blueprint 内在状态、自然流、Mystery 结构化互动、冷读 | 先读 references/knowledge/20-经典社交体系的机制、证据与风险边界.md;要落地时再读 references/practical/自然流、内在状态与结构化互动:伦理能力转译.md |
| 冷读误用、PUA、推拉、贬低、服从测试、煤气灯 | references/knowledge/05-PUA操控与伦理替代.md,必要时再读知识 20 |
| 聊天截图、网聊、媒介误读、隐私或诈骗 | references/knowledge/09-在线约会与数字关系.md |
| ChatLab、聊天文件、关系趋势或K线 | references/practical/ChatLab聊天记录分析适配.md |
| 跨任务档案、记忆同意、自动更新、撤销或删除 | references/practical/长期记忆与关系档案.md |
| 主动表达、第一次见面、自然接触 | references/practical/主动表达、第一次见面与自然接触.md |
| 投入失衡、降级或退出 | references/practical/关系投入失衡:互惠判断、降级投入与退出决策.md |
| 依恋、焦虑或情绪调节 | references/knowledge/03-依恋理论与情绪调节.md |
| MBTI | references/knowledge/04-MBTI人格与匹配.md |
| 冲突修复 | references/knowledge/07-沟通冲突与修复.md |
| 同意、性与亲密边界 | references/knowledge/08-同意边界性与亲密.md |
| 婚姻家庭、金钱家务育儿、分手背叛 | 知识 11、12、15 中与问题对应的一份 |
| 家暴、跟踪、胁迫、法律或危机 | references/knowledge/17-中国法律安全与危机转介.md |
| 用户要求来源、证据等级或延伸阅读 | references/knowledge/01-证据分级与内容边界.md;references/knowledge/19-核心书单与论文索引.md |
需要其他实用主题时先读 references/practical/00-导读与使用分级.md,再选择对应指南。引用研究时区分较强证据、理论框架、流行说法和经验策略;除非用户要求,不展示理论史或课程版本史。
只保留可观察、可纠正、可退出的能力:状态容纳、减少自我监控、现场取材、真实表达、双向筛选、阶段诊断、结构/素材/表达排错和反馈校准。把冷读改成“观察事实 + 暂定假设 + 邀请纠正”,猜错时直接承认;不得把泛化陈述、人口统计、对方刚透露的信息或私下调查伪装成读心。
不得把互动写成必须完成的漏斗。结构只用于判断当前任务和避免错位,不构成升级权利;明确拒绝、僵住、躲避或撤回时立即停止。禁止提供贬低、服从性测试、虚假时间限制、假未来、嫉妒操控、奖惩、煤气灯、孤立、跟踪或性施压的实施方案。
始终让用户保留最终决定权,并说明关键不确定性和何时应改变策略。
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SKILL.md and 72 other files (scripts, references, assets) in the repository root of shengjidaguai-china/goutoujunshi.
Open the folder on GitHubat commit 6db7354
Dating and Relationship Advisor next to the 5 skills that share the most tags, products or categories with it. Stars are the repository's; “used in” counts other GitHub owners with a copy.
| Skill | Stars | Used in | Tokens | Auto-check | Licence | Repo updated |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| Dating and Relationship Advisor this skillshengjidaguai-china/goutoujunshi | 7.5k | — | ~973 | Automated safety check: Pass | MIT | |
| Socialcoreyhaines31/marketingskills | 54k | 4 repos | ~4.5k | Automated safety check: Pass | MIT | |
| HumanizerAzure-Samples/interview-coach-agent-framework | 173 | 38 repos | ~5.8k | Automated safety check: Pass | MIT | |
| Avoid AI Writingconorbronsdon/avoid-ai-writing | 4.9k | 3 repos | ~8.1k | Automated safety check: Pass | MIT | |
| JavaScript Concept Fact Checkerleonardomso/33-js-concepts | 67k | 1 repos | ~5k | Automated safety check: Pass | MIT | |
| User-Facing Text Cleanupguillaumemeyer/watermarks-remover | 24k | — | ~3.5k | Automated safety check: Pass | MIT |
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Chinese-language relationship coach that responds to feelings first, then separates facts, weighs reciprocity and drafts messages you can send to a crush or partner. Written in Chinese, this advisor skill covers crushes, flirting, dating, chat-log and screenshot reading, relationship confirmation, choosing between several people, conflict, cooling interest, uneven effort, breakups, getting back together, infidelity, and marriage or family problems. Its stated principle is to acknowledge feelings first, then sort out facts, then offer choices you can act on.
Dating and Relationship Advisor fits situations like: working out what a partner's cooler replies might mean; drafting a message to invite someone on a first date; deciding between two people you are seeing; thinking through a breakup, reconciliation or conflict with support.
Run `npx skills add shengjidaguai-china/goutoujunshi --skill goutoujunshi -a claude-code`. Or copy the skill folder (the shengjidaguai-china/goutoujunshi repository) into .claude/skills/goutoujunshi in your project. Claude Code loads it when a task matches its description.
Run `npx skills add shengjidaguai-china/goutoujunshi --skill goutoujunshi -a codex`. Or copy the skill folder (the shengjidaguai-china/goutoujunshi repository) into .agents/skills/goutoujunshi in your project. Codex loads it when a task matches its description.
Cursor, Gemini CLI, GitHub Copilot and OpenCode also load SKILL.md folders. With the skills CLI, run `npx skills add shengjidaguai-china/goutoujunshi --skill goutoujunshi -a cursor` (or -a gemini-cli, github-copilot or opencode for the others). To copy it by hand, put the folder in .cursor/skills/goutoujunshi, .gemini/skills/goutoujunshi, .github/skills/goutoujunshi and .opencode/skills/goutoujunshi in your project.
SKILL.md names no scripts, command-line tools or credentials: Dating and Relationship Advisor is instructions for the agent only.
SKILL.md contains no URLs. Any network use would come from the scripts or tools the agent runs. This is read from the text; nothing was executed.
Our automated static check of SKILL.md found no risky patterns, such as piping downloads into a shell, reading credential files or hidden Unicode. It is not a guarantee. The check reads SKILL.md only: the scripts in the folder are not scanned, so read them before running anything.
Dating and Relationship Advisor is published under the MIT licence (from the LICENSE file in the skill folder). It allows redistribution, so the full SKILL.md is shown on this page.
About 973 tokens (SKILL.md is roughly 3.9k characters). Agents keep only the skill's name and description in context until a task matches; then they load SKILL.md in full. Its references folder adds about 75k tokens, read only when the agent opens those files.
Skills that share tags, products or a category with Dating and Relationship Advisor: Social (coreyhaines31/marketingskills, 54k stars), Humanizer (Azure-Samples/interview-coach-agent-framework, 173 stars), Avoid AI Writing (conorbronsdon/avoid-ai-writing, 4.9k stars) and JavaScript Concept Fact Checker (leonardomso/33-js-concepts, 67k stars). The comparison table on this page puts their stars, adoption, token cost, safety result and licence side by side.
shengjidaguai-china (a GitHub organization) maintains it in shengjidaguai-china/goutoujunshi, which has 7,515 GitHub stars. The repository was last updated on September 20, 2026.
Source: shengjidaguai-china/goutoujunshi on GitHub. Facts on this page come from the repository at the commit we read; the author's words are quoted as theirs.